How easy I forget.
I forget again and again.
Writing is not a one shot, sit at your desk, and flesh out your entire story deal.
I forget that characters reveal themselves slowly, very s l o w l y.
Back story is their story. So better take a back seat and listen.
My writer's tip for better listening...
1. Walk away from your computer.
2. Grab a pen and paper
3. Go outside and sit somewhere your character would sit
4. Now write a letter to yourself in voice of your character.
You'll like what you hear.
Listening to the voices that tell their individual stories
is what we authors do.
Let go. Let be.